Dating two friends at the same time
One may have the best butt; the other may have an impressive beard. When you’re seeing two guys at the same time, they’re rarely similar.
That’s what makes the situation attractive: They’re great in opposite (yet equal) ways. You’re playing the perfect girlfriend in two different relationships. You like both men so much, but you can’t bring yourself to pick just one. At the same time, you’re so incredibly happy to have two people who make you feel so good.
Making a decision about a guy is no different than any other decision.
You weigh your pros and cons, you do your cost-benefit analysis, you use a little logic and a little emotion, and then make a largely arbitrary choice without knowing if you’re right.
They follow up, they text, we talk, make plans…it’s all good. On the other hand, I don’t know how to manage this.
Last month, I wrote to two men that I was very interested in.
The good news is that both of them wrote me back and I have been seeing both for the past 2-3 weeks.
You know you should, but you just can’t bring yourself to commit. When two guys are vying for your love, you may feel like the ultimate catch, but you’ll end up the ultimate loser.
Here you are, time flying by, and you haven’t been able to choose.