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She later told he that he said, "I really like ******, but she's too nice and I'm not that nice". Anyway, when I got home I didn't bother asking him for closure. There have been guys I've not been attracted to who were "too nice." And then others I was attracted to who were probably just as nice as the guys I considered "too nice." So clearly the ones who I thought I didn't like because they were "too nice"...well, it had to be something that I couldn't put my finger on other than that they were "too nice." I'm dating someone now who is extremely nice, considering, and giving, and I'm pretty hot for him. (My opinion really doesn't matter, obviously, because I don't like girls romantically). I don't like girls who are too nice and if I were a guy, I probably wouldn't either.
Don't get me wrong, I like women who are generally nice.
We would make small talk but then he would go off on his own somewhere or take off to other areas with his friends. On the very last day before we all left, pulled me aside and gave me his number and told me he would "explain things to me" when we got home. I definitely have a bitchy side sometimes but he never saw that because I was all relaxed and on vacation! Don't get me wrong, I like women who are generally nice.
Just after he told me this, I saw him talking to my friend briefly (I knew it was about me). When I run into him at clubs/bars (he's from a nearby city), he's always really happy to see me, gives me a big hug, and goes out of his way to come talk to me/dance with me. I didn't want to ask him for his explanation when we got back because I didn't want him to think it affected me that much. I just am not crazy about "that girl" who is just so nice and lovely and would never say a bad thing about anyone or use a curse word. I'm a female, but even if I were male, I obviously can't speak for him. But I will put in my two cents about "too niceness." The whole "too nice" thing, to me, can be kind of arbitrary.
Thanks Ruby, A couple people have said the same thing to me, I just don't understand why he would think that... I have to agree with some of the comments already posted.I just am not crazy about "that girl" who is just so nice and lovely and would never say a bad thing about anyone or use a curse word. Believe me, I'm a generally nice person, but I'm no angel.I swear, I get pissy sometimes, and I don't put on that sweet baby voice around guys. Yeah, whatever the guy's reasons, just forget about him. You're fine the way you are and some lucky guy will realize it at some point.Hey guys, I met this guy while on vacation with friends in the summer.We connected well, both of us were attracted to one another, and it was always the two of us hanging out. He commented several times on how chill and laid back I was.