Male psychology dating the chase
However, I realized that for guys, the chase is the foundation of something real.
Also for a girl, chasing is the time to test the waters, to know for sure if the guy is truly interested in her or if he’s just passing his time.
If a guy truly wants to be with you, he will go all out to make you his.
But if he’s in it for an ulterior motive or to pass his time, he will be gone before you know it.
However, when a guy wants to be with you (and I mean really be with you), the chase is what gets him hooked and interested.
It’s during the chase that both parties get a lot of time to figure out what they want from each other.
They get innate satisfaction only if they have worked hard towards something and finally gotten it.
An easy target will never keep them satisfied, in fact, if they get something easy, they’ll wonder if they could’ve gotten something better if they had tried harder.
That’s the male psychology since the beginning of time.
What I am saying is there needs to be a push and pull from both the guy and the girl, only to keep some mystery in the budding relationship.
If the girls put all their cards out in the open, the challenge of the chase is gone and the guy will instantly lose interest once he knows that the girl is interested in him.